Hold On

Marriage can be hard. Divorce can be worse. I know of one divorce that was a blessing as it saved lives. Abuse is horrid. Yet for adultery- another one bites the dust. We have another set of friends calling it quits. I feel so sad for them. It is scary because you would never have guessed. The majority of the ones we are close too so far have all been miserable after the excitement of the new man or new woman wears off. I think about the struggles the children, women, and men go through. Sometimes it is their choice. Sometime no matter how hard they try agency is cruel to them. They don't always see the greatness in each other and choose to wander to what they think is greener pastures only to find out that they didn't know what they had until it was gone. The divorce will be final soon. I just respect Scott so much. Even if we disagree on something like hunting or having kids or having people over to the house or acting. Okay I can see how it is hard but I pray I can withstand temptations- not that others did not I am not wanting to judge any of them I have so many sins myself. It just makes me think maybe I can be kinder to Scott and make him number one in my life and how grateful I am for him. Oh how my heart breaks for our friends. Scott is a never give up never quit guy and I am lucky to have him as I tend to look for the easy out of most struggles. I love that my religion teaches that we are each a Divine child of God with a story before our birth and one after. That within each of us is greatness a diamond in the rough and eternal progression is possible and that each must place God first and then each other and give 100 % not just 50/50. What can I do to help them know we love them no matter what...